“If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with success unexpected in common hours.” – Henry David Thoreau
Your semen is your life force, whether you are spiritual or not it does indeed have the power to create life. It takes a tremendous amount of energy, vitality and vigor to create this life force inside man.
Masturbation causes men to be lethargic and tired, lacking in drive, desire, and motivation whereas sex drives us; it is one of the primary reasons we are on this planet — to recreate life for the next generation.
When you masturbate your body feels fulfilled. “Yes we did it!” But abstaining from masturbation can give you a powerful motivation and drive to work harder and develop a stronger desire to succeed in your work and life.
Not to mention quitting porn and masturbation has been also shown to give you more energy, motivation, increased confidence, a deeper voice, more alert, less brain fog, higher sex drive, less fatigue, more assertiveness, less anxiety, depression, more social, better memory, better athletic performance, thicker penis girth, higher self-esteem, less acne, and clear complexion.
Stop wasting this power by watching porn and masturbating. Keep it inside of you to drive yourself to penetrate the world. Use it to go after what you want in life instead of letting it out and it going nowhere. Accomplish goals, meet women, and change the world around you.
Notice how you feel hours and days after you ejaculate. If you’re really stressed out from work and life, then it’s easy to succumb to watching porn and masturbating to release and relax for a bit. But as you live your life with more purpose and meaning you won’t accumulate so much tension from the day.
From this point you will discover that ejaculation actually depletes and weakens you of the life force you need to move forward into life. It’s instant gratification. It feels good in the moment, but you ultimately pay the price in the long run. You can live a good life with countless unnecessary ejaculations but you will not live a great life. You won’t have the inner gusto to be courageous, stand up for yourself, and take risks and act on what you most need to do in your life.
If you do pull it together and take the action, then it will be with much less vigor and drive. You will settle with just doing enough to get by instead of going above and beyond in your personal and professional life.
Your gift to the world will remain largely undone.
I encourage you to have the self-discipline to choose more wisely when you do ejaculate instead of just letting it out anytime you feel horny, whether that is through masturbation or sex with a woman. Don’t become addicted to ejaculation; instead, become addicted to becoming the best version of yourself.
When you go to bed at night, the long term fulfillment and satisfaction you’ll get from knowing each day that you put all of your best work, talents, and gifts out into the world will be well worth it and much better than some meaningless orgasm.
Napoleon Hill said it best in his classic, Think and Grow Rich: “The desire for sexual expression is by far the strongest and most impelling of all human emotions. For this very reason this desire, when harnessed and transmitted into action other than that of physical expression, may raise one to the status of genius.”
In other words, since sexual energy is the most powerful of energies, then channeling that energy into your purpose or something productive is much better than letting it out randomly when horny.
This is what it means to fuck the world. It is not saying screw life and become a rebel! It means to transfer the sexual energy onto your personal and professional endeavors in life. Release the energy through your best work, not an orgasm. Give it everything you’ve got.
If you take a Bull, for example, and castrate it, the Bull rarely moves. Its life force has been stolen from it and it no longer has power. It’s still the same size and shape physically but mentally it’s lost its edge.
When you empty your balls, you empty your life. Keep your balls full to go after the life you want.
Don’t waste your finite energy. Use it wisely…